If bedtime becomes a nightly battle, your 5-year-old "forgets" every single step of getting ready, or your 8-year-old suddenly needs seventeen different things after lights out, you're not alone. The whole process can be exhausting. I hear this from families constantly.
After two decades of supporting children's development, I've learned that predictable routines are like a roadmap for developing nervous systems. Children's brains crave structure, especially during transitions. What looks like "stalling" or "being difficult" might actually be a nervous system that needs more predictability to feel safe.
I created this visual routine chart because every family deserves peaceful bedtimes without the constant reminders and battles. No more feeling like a broken record- just clear, visual steps that help your child become independent.
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How to use this chart: This chart is about giving your child's developing brain the predictability it needs to feel secure. Use it to reduce nightly negotiations, build independence, and create space for connection instead of conflict.
Remember: Every family's timing will be different. These are guidelines to adapt for your unique child and schedule.